Highlight of the Message by Pst Charles Chukwuemezie
Marriage and Relationship
But I wish everyone were single, just as I am. Yet each person has a special gift from God, of one kind or another.
1 Corinthians 7:7 NLT
*What heals can kill it depends on how it is administered. If it is administered perfectly it works well
Everybody must not marry.
Never compare marriages. Because every marriage comes with their own package
Marriage is a gift but it requires wisdom to work
Know what you want and go for it when choosing a life partner.
Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord : though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
Isaiah 1:18 KJV
Marry someone that you can reason together with, one who has the same mind as to where your going.
Do all things without murmurings and disputings:
Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
The husband remains the head of the home, but being the head does not mean imposing on your wife
The person whose decisions stand final is the man.
Never assume anything in the relationship, define the relationship.
Every relationship must have an agenda
It is important tohave someone that is respected by the husband and the wife in case you need someone to address certain issues in the marriage.
Perhaps. But because of the danger of immorality, each husband should have sexual intimacy with his wife and each wife should have sexual intimacy with her husband. A husband has the responsibility of meeting the sexual needs of his wife, and likewise a wife to her husband. Neither the husband nor the wife have exclusive rights to their own bodies, but those rights are to be surrendered to the other. So don’t continue to refuse your spouse those rights, except perhaps by mutual agreement for a specified time so that you can both be devoted to prayer. And then you should resume your physical pleasure so that the Adversary cannot take advantage of you because of the desires of your body.
1 Corinthians 7:2-5 TPT